The term ‘Mentor’ finds its origins in Greek
mythology and represents an older, wiser being who offers their
knowledge, experience and guidance to a Protégé or apprentice, and they
do so free of any expectation of reciprocation. Mentors are individuals
who understand the importance of offering their advice, in a hope that
their student becomes equal or better than themselves in a chosen field
of study or expertise. An example of this selfless process can be found
in the world of Classical music, where Johann Christian Bach (son of
J.S. Bach) mentored Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. And it could be said that
Mozart has turned out to be the more recognized musician.

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So how
do you go about finding a mentor? Well, you have surely heard the
saying, “A reader does not always choose the book, rather sometimes the
book may well choose the reader.” This age old saying also applies to
finding a mentor. So when it comes to seeking an advisor or teacher, do
not underestimate the fact that circumstances may well bring you into
the company of the very person that you seek! So be sure to stay open
to opportunities that present themselves and listen closely to those
around you and soon you will find yourself in the company of those you
are seeking.

Choosing a mentor may sound easy, but in fact there
are various levels of commitment required from both sides. Also, your
mentor needs to be familiar with your field of interest. For example,
if I were seeking a mentor in the private loan industry, I would seek
out someone like Russ Dalbey, rather than say, Martha Stewart. Now,
Martha Stewart may have the qualities and characteristics that I admire
in a business person, but she does not possess the intricate knowledge
regarding the specifics of the cash flow business. You will tend to
gravitate towards someone who mirrors your own level of integrity,
honesty, work ethic, and beliefs.

It’s also important to keep in
mind that mentors are not idols; they are not heroes and the process of
finding a mentor involves seeking someone who can offer wise and
trusted counsel. Mentors are individuals who are able to recognize your
potential and bring about a positive process of growth. At the end of
the day, a mentor is someone whose influence will resonate with you
throughout the rest of your life. The world famous golfer, Tiger Woods,
one of the greatest athletes of our time, has a coach and mentor who
will travel with him forever; his father. To this day, even though
Tiger Woods’ father passed away nearly two years ago, you can guarantee
that he still hears his father’s voice whispering within, “Let the
legend grow…” And you can be sure that this simple phrase has more
influence than ten thousand fans cheering him down the 18th fairway.

A mentor is a powerful ally to have in the world today and choosing one should not be undertaken lightly.